Author: wangzhen
Word count: 12138
[The queen’s experience] About the methods and experiences of cultivating green slaves (how to train green hat slaves)
Green slaves are not a minority in M’s group. Many Ms have a dream of green slaves in their hearts, but very few people’s dreams come true. From my years of observation and experience, it is first necessary to correct people’s common thinking.
Many people simply think that green slaves are a type of M group who allow their other half to have lovers and are willing to accept being humiliated and trampled by them.
However, what I want to say is that this is actually just the wishful thinking of most ordinary people, and it is extremely difficult to realize it in reality. Therefore, it is necessary to redefine the concept of Green Slave.
A class of people who subconsciously fear being abandoned can be called green slaves. It can be said that they are a group of people who yearn for a sense of belonging, and being controlled is a common form of expression among these many senses of belonging. This form will make them feel love, and this love is produced under the inferiority complex of extreme fear. It should be noted that some people are aware of their fear of abandonment, while some people’s fear is buried in the subconscious, and they do not even realize it.
Next, briefly describe the characteristics and psychological reflection of Green Slave
1. A group of people who tend to be dependent and fear being abandoned. They lack a sense of security in their hearts, are extremely unconfident about themselves (it may be stored in the subconscious), and are eager to entrust themselves to others and gain a sense of belonging from others.
2. They may have voyeurism, but it needs to be emphasized that not all people with voyeurism are green slaves. The psychological motivation of green slave voyeurism is “the crisis driven by sexual desire”. They vent their sexual desire in their own humble way, and the whole process of voyeurism will deepen their secret sense of humbleness unconsciously. (There is a kind of voyeurism that simply enjoys the pleasure of hiding. Many of us may have thought that it would be great if we had the function of invisibility. In fact, many normal people also have more or less voyeurism. So if you want to simply hide yourself, it will also bring pleasure. Think about the game of hide-and-seek we used to play when we were young, so this kind of people do not just satisfy their sexual desires through voyeurism.)
3. They may have fetish psychology to varying degrees, and people with fetish psychology are not necessarily green slaves. The psychological motivation of green slave fetishism is “a reasonable extension of sexual desire”. Since they can’t get it, they may become obsessed with a certain organ of a woman, and then arouse their obsession with their objects around its organ. For example, people with foot fetish tendencies will be interested in stockings, while those who are yin lovers will prefer underwear (for most men, this kind of obsession is common, but not necessarily put into practice). For most green slaves, real fetishes are rare, and they all use fetishes to arouse the worship of their goddess’s body, so deep down in their hearts they still want to “get” the goddess’s body,Even if they refuse to admit it on the surface. (A true fetish is one that completely abandons the desire for normal sexual intercourse and only desires a part or object of interest)
4. They basically enjoy the feeling of being forced. This feeling is not obsessive-compulsive disorder (obsessive-compulsive disorder is the compulsion of their own thoughts and behaviors. When they realize this problem, they will feel very painful), and the compulsion of Green Slave is passive and belongs to the game of two people. So here are some digressions, human beings desire stimulation, so human beings subconsciously desire to be compelled, because compulsion will bring stimulation, whether it is forcing yourself or others forcing yourself, here is a bold idea, those people with obsessive-compulsive disorder, although painful, but stimulating, in daily life, there is no one who can actively force him, he chooses to force himself, in essence, he is still looking for stimulation instinctively.
5. They will have transvestism. There are many psychological causes of transvestism. Here we only emphasize the psychological causes of green slaves. Theoretically speaking, the essence is the fetishism of green slaves, and they indirectly occupy the body of the goddess through clothing (only for internal, not external, and green slaves. . . . . . .
Generally speaking, green slaves are not a group of perverted groups that are not understood by people. In fact, there are many men who have the potential of green slaves in life. However, due to the limited environment, there are very few who really become green slaves.
Through communication and observation, I think that part of the true green slave is born in the character, and part of it is acquired because of some childhood shadows or encounters in the process of growing up. For example, he may have experienced the divorce of his parents, or the death of a relative when he was growing up, or it may be a simple fear experience in childhood, being trapped in the elevator for a long time and unable to get out, or in kindergarten, he could not wait for his parents to pick him up, worrying that his parents would not want him, etc. These things may cause his lack of sense of belonging, and then affect his thinking as an adult. (This is not a psych seminar, it’s a bit of a stretch)
Now, it is necessary to consider the definition of the relevant standards when the true green slaves are successfully cultivated. It can be said that the standards of each S are different. In my opinion, if a person can willingly endure the training of the other half with holy water, he can be regarded as a real green slave. In most cases, a green slave who has completed the worship of the goddess will basically not refuse his other half to find a lover.
After doing these preparations, the key point is here. The following mainly discusses the training methods. What I want to point out is that this is for reference only. Any similarities are purely accidental. This article only focuses on the cultivation of green slaves after the relationship between husband and wife has been established. In fact, there are more green slaves in couple relationships (there is also a complete master-slave relationship, which is even more unstable), but it doesn’t last long, and the S’s control ability is very high. For those so-called infatuated men and women, we analyze them from the perspective of SM, they belong to the green slave category, and they belong to the party who is emotionally enslaved. But for most couples, physical slavery is rare, unless it is a chanceCoincidentally, it can only happen if you really meet a fellow lover.
Confirm real green slave
There is no doubt that a qualified S must have good observation ability
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