Hushubao 2

Author: Hanyong
Word count: 5975
I felt that after a short time, a patient came in. From the greetings of Xiu’er’s mother, I could tell that the patient was a woman, and it was not the first time she came to my mother’s place.
After the woman sat down, she heard her mother ask, “Have you felt better these days?
The woman spoke with a strong Suzhou accent, “Doctor Sima, I know that you have devoted a lot of effort to my strange disease, but my disease just doesn’t give you face. In the first month, I felt a peace of mind that I had never had before. I thought my mind had returned to normal, but it was not what I thought it would be at all.”
My mother asked, “Why are you losing control of your emotions again?”
“Oh, what else could be the reason. I have already done what you said, and I finally calmed down and stopped caring about my husband’s whereabouts. Who would have thought that the one who suffered a thousand knives made more progress, and even brought that little lover back home three days ago, and publicly challenged me. Do you think I can bear it? In the end, the one who suffered a thousand knives beat me up in front of his little lover and even tied me up, making his little lover pee in my mouth. Doctor Sima, Ordinarily, this should be my biggest shame, but for some reason, I drank it in a big gulp, and called out “little mother” repeatedly. My husband’s little lover was so happy that he called me “good girl” and slapped me dozens of times. Husband, see if my illness is getting worse. But I still hate my husband for beating me up. ”
The woman started to sob when she said this, and Xiu’er’s mother handed her a napkin and said, “Oh, it seems that you also have a tendency to be abused, but right now, you should first solve the problem between you and your husband. As for your sadomasochistic mental illness, let’s wait a little longer. The relationship between you and your husband has reached this point, why don’t you divorce him?”
The woman blew her nose onto the napkin, folded it again, wiped her nostrils and said, “I was worried about the impact on the child, so I couldn’t make up my mind.”
“How old are your children?”
“My eldest daughter is eighteen and just entered college this year, and my second daughter is also sixteen and just started her first year of high school this year.”
“When children reach this age, it shouldn’t have much impact on them.”
“Well, it seems that I need to seriously consider divorce.”
“You must hate your husband so much now, and your mood seems very unstable, which is very worrying. In order to stabilize your mood, you must find someone to vent your shame and anger.”
“Look for someone to vent? What kind of object are you looking for?”
“Your husband is a man, of courseYou should find a man, so that it is easier for you to imagine this man as your husband and vent completely. ”
“Ah, find a man to vent to.”
“Yes, don’t you hate men very much? As long as you imagine this man as your husband, and have a psychological vent, it will have a vital therapeutic effect on you to completely get rid of the shadow left by your husband and return to your normal life as soon as possible.”
“That’s right, but where can I find such a man? There will be such a man who is regarded as the object of humiliation by people, especially women, and I have never even heard of it.”
My mother smiled and said: “You didn’t and never thought that you would be so eager to humiliate your husband’s lover, so there are men with your mentality. As long as you want, I can find such a man for you.”
The woman was very surprised when she heard this, “Ah, so there really are such shameless men.”
My mother patiently explained: “You can’t say that, ma’am. Not all men like to be humiliated and played with by others. Just like your situation at the time, can you say that you are shameless? Of course, there may be more men. The reasons for your psychological orientation are very complicated, and there is no convincing theoretical explanation in the field of psychology, so it will be very difficult to treat. Ordinary people think it is shameless words and deeds, but for people like you, it is the only way for them to obtain pleasure and happiness. Therefore, we should not discriminate against them , When you vent on them, when you humiliate and play with them, you must always understand that you are helping them, because at this time, you are already the supreme queen in their hearts. As every woman who plays this role, you should realize the great responsibility on your shoulders, and you must not show your vulgar side, thereby destroying your sacred position in their hearts, and at the same time, it will also make it impossible for the game to continue. Please pay special attention to this when you vent later. ”